I don’t know about any other fitness business in town, but we have been getting a lot of calls from people ready to start a fitness program. Don’t get me wrong, I am thrilled with the prospect of new clients, but I also want to make sure that you aren’t setting yourself up for failure.
You see, this happens with the start of every new year. People are so anxious to get a fresh start on being healthy, getting fit and losing weight. They try to do everything at once. Join a gym (or boot camp), start a super strict diet, or worse, join one of those unhealthy ultra-low calorie diet centers.
Your intentions are great, it’s just that most people set themselves up for failure by trying to change everything all at once.
What happens with most people is that they start off strong, work out 5 days a week, change their diet and then give up in a few weeks when they see they haven’t lost huge numbers on the scale like they see on The Biggest Loser.
They begin to think all their hard work is futile. They become discouraged and eventually workouts become less of a priority. With the decrease in workouts, the healthy eating isn’t as important. “What’s the point, I’m not losing weight, I might as well eat”. I’ve heard this a million times. Heck, I’ve said this myself and I know better.
The number one problem is that too many people are focused on the “almighty scale”. If the scale isn’t showing progress, they think, that THEY are not making progress. Their self worth, self esteem and happiness boil down to the number they see in the morning.
Let me assure you that the scale and the numbers on the scale are just that; numbers! Those numbers represent your entire body. The scale has no idea if your weight is fat, water, bones, hair or internal organs. It’s just a number.
If you want to measure your progress, then the best thing you can do is to get your body fat tested, check how your clothes fit, use a tape measure or even take weekly pictures.
I can’t tell you how many times I hear women complain that they are working out so hard and the scale isn’t moving. I ask them if their clothes fit different and most of the time they will tell me that their clothes are getting lose. So why are you still focused on the scale?
I’ve trained 1,000s of people over the last 10 years and I’ve done 1,000s of body fat testing. I’ve trained people who lost tons of inches and body fat, lost several sizes in their clothes and the scale either didn’t move at all, or it only moved slightly.
I like to give people an example of my younger days when I was struggling with an eating disorder.
In my early 20s, I weighed just under 100 lbs. I wasn’t working out; just starving myself. I wore a size 9 jean.
In my 30s I started working out, lifting super heavy weights and competing in bodybuilding competitions. In the weeks leading up to one of my contests, I weighed 124 lbs, but I wore a size 0.
Had I judged my progress on the scale alone, I would have been very discouraged and probably given up. Thank God, I knew better.
Do yourself a favor this year. Work out, eat healthy and stay off the scale. Instead of judging your progress by a little machine that doesn’t know any better, judge your progress by how you look and feel in your clothes and how you feel.
Don’t give up! Some people take longer than others to see changes. Trust me, if you are changing your life, then changes are happening inside of your body. It may just take longer to see those changes on the outside.
Have a healthy week!
Laurel